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Celebrating Life with Sagarika Chakraborty

Sagarika Chakraborty, born in Kolkata, studied law at National Law University, Jodhpur and is currently studying management at Indian School of Business, Hyderabad. Apart from delving into serious research work, she has also written light fiction and poetry for various online and print media. A Calendar Too Crowded is her first book. Here we are in conversation with the pretty and vivacious author!

She blogs endowedwithmetis.wordpress.com . Anyone who wants to contact her can drop a shout over there. Or even here :P

Arpita, our newest admin, interviews the pretty amazing and amazingly pretty author on life before and after being an author.


We said- Hi, Sagarika. Congratulations on the success of your debut novel! Blogging seems to have been your passion; how was the experience of writing a novel different from that of writing for a blog?


She said- Yes, indeed! Blogging is my passion and I love to blog about a myraid subjects; but with a book that's dramatically opposite. There's a theme to follow and a style to maintain. Also, for each of my stories a heavy amount of research goes into it; unlike blogging where I can let my hair down, it is not the case for a book.



We said- What was the inspiration behind this book? Is there any incident that stood out in your memory while working on it?


She said- There's some inspiration or the other behind every story in the book. The story When Ganges Ran Dry has snippets of my relationship with my grandmother ... Similarly, the last story on migrants is my experience of working with them in the Supreme Court matter. Every story has a bit of me, or what I have witnessed or how the society has come to affect me.

One incident that clearly stood out was while working on the story A Life in my Mind where I deal with an over zealous feminist. I asked my mother to sketch her own protagonist on the same theme ... She sketched out a complete anti thesis which showed me how the previous generation really thinks this generation is better off. While I, being from this present one, was questioning this very notion of well being.



We said- It really was one of the most impressive stories in the book; it had a different take on feminism as a discourse. Is there any character in the book that you can particularly relate to?

She said- Thank you; I am glad you liked it. I was a bit skeptical though, about the response, as it somewhere stands out amongst the other pieces.

Though it's hard to believe, I can relate to the protagonist of Knowledge Beyond Printed Letters - somewhere her humility and her attempt to make her work known being in the shadows tugs me and inspires me to walk the same lines. I shall be happy if I am known by the name and references and there's no picture which people can associate with their recollections of me. Glitz and glamour unnerves me, am a simple girl who's extremely crowd phobic.


We said- Crowd phobic? Really? But you sound wonderfully outgoing! Well, speaking of the response of the readers, would you hesitate to write about sensitive issues that might lead to controversy?

She said- Well, yes, almost EVERYONE thinks that am extrovert, outgoing and very social. (Laughs) But the truth is I appear that way; very few people actually know me or about what's going on in my life. The very idea of sharing my life and space with more than a select few unnerves me. And yes, I am extremely crowd phobic, I feel lost in a crowd and thus switch off - it's likely that I will not speak much, but just observe.

I have never hesitated to speak my mind and never will. I truly believe that we all might have different perspectives but deviance of thoughts should not lead to disrespect. Also, it's only through constructive criticism and sharing of ideas that you'll grow. I have also faced quite some trolls and my friends have told me I shouldn't have responded, but then again I felt every little thing builds you - either strengthens your convictions or makes you more humble.


We said- That's a great way of looking at things; like you said, constructive criticism does help you grow. And I bet your habit of talking less and observing more has helped you immensely in becoming such a good writer. You studied law and management from some of the best institutes around; how did publishers- and family- react to your decision to pursue writing? 

She said- No, no! I do talk a lot! :P Well, I don't know how the publishers took my university tag, except maybe that they were assured that I knew the genre I was writing about. As for my family, since childhood I have been a stubborn kid, who will do what she sets her heat onto (unless the same logically refuted and struck down) and thus my family by now has let me be.

I am a first generation everything in my family - a first generation lawyer, a first generation MBA, a first generation author, thus there will be differences in perception. But, having said that, I love the fact that they respect my decisions - my Dad always said that people might not concur but that shouldn't make you disrespectful towards them, and am glad that he lives by example.


We said- "A first generation everything''...like the sound of that! :D At the moment, writing is not a full time profession for you; how do you manage to balance the time you give to writing, work and leisure?

She said- I am a person who is smitten by work - yes, I am a self confessed workaholic. I like to survive on 4-5 hours of sleep to have a sense of 'doing' else I get bogged down by the thoughts of wasting my life. So in general, majority of the work I take on in life is voluntary - be it at work, home or even research.

And the un-social element that I am, I like to invest time in doing my own thing and thus roam about, do photography, observe and thus when I sit down to write it is all already written in my mind - the draft at least! And yes, writing also acts like a stress buster for me along with dance and cooking! :)


We said- Well, which author would you say you really look up to?

She said- I love Devdutt Patnaik amongst Indian writers. I am a sticker for mythology and the way he spins his stories simply takes my breath away. Also, though he writes the same genre, each of his books are so different and I guess that's where his greatness lies, the ability to keep the reader hooked no matter how similar two titles look!

In western writing I would pick my favorite poet - Rilke. I feel that despite being almost a century older the way he simplifies life through his poetic nuances no body can. His greatness lies in the fact that every reader feels that those words were written for him/her.


We said- Which book are you currently reading?

She said- I am actually in a transition phase now. I just finished reading a collection of stories by Pakistani women writers called And the World Changed and while am enjoying its aftertaste, I am ready with a book by my bedside. This one is called The Warrior and the Charioteer by V M Mohanraj. It's an interesting concept he writes about - looking at Mahabharata not from an age old philosophical angle but a refreshing materialistic point of view. It looks very promising :)


We said- It does sound very interesting! And that reminds me, do you happen to have read The Palace of Illusions by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni? What are your top five favorite novels that you would recommend to all bookworms?

She said- Yes, I loved PoI and in fact to be truthful after reading it I got an idea for a story for my book!!! :P

Hmmm... top 5 books would be -

1. Maximum City - Suketu Mehta
2. Out of my Comfort Zone - Steve Waugh
3. Anamika - Soorina Arora
4. Love in the Time of Cholera - Gabriel García Márquez
5. Pregnant King - Devdutt Patnaik


We said- Panchaali's letter to Lord Krishna right? :) Oh, you have a great choice of books; do have a look at the reviews of some of them on ALOP! Which is the one literary character you'd love to be like?

She said- Bingo!!! You have indeed read my book well ;)

Thank you, thank you!! :D I surely will look them up!

Hmmm... one character would be Juila from An Equal Music by Vikram Seth. I love her strength and grit. She somewhere shows me that in love and life there's no room for ego and if someone you love does bring in ego and the likes as pre condition for acceptance it is best to move on. Also, that you are what you make of yourself and it is indeed upto you to build your life and move on - for life and time sadly wait for none, not even the deviant lover who was bound to return! :)


We said- Now, this might sound insane, but which anti-hero would you say you admire, and why?

She said- I think Othello shows that it's important at times to listen to your heart when taking a decision. I know he stands for what goes around, comes around but still there's a certain charm about the character and the love he had for his wife, the passion for his community which makes me admire him.


We said- Which story from a book that you would have liked to live...as the protagonist or any other significant character?

She said- Oh I would have loved to live a Calvin like childhood, though my Mom would say that in many ways I did!!! On a serious note, there's a character I would love to live no matter how hilarious it sounds .. it is the character of Mrinal from Tagore's short story Strir Patra.

To be brief, the story is penned down in a letter format and recounts the life experiences of the protagonist Mrinal who having abandoned her marital life, goes to the sea and writes a letter to her husband. The paradox of her life is that her beauty is forgotten by everybody including her husband, but her intelligence is a source of discomfiture to all. In an attempt to curb her intelligence, they corner her and she is relegated to the corners of the household.

That is when she asserts her individuality and decides to break free - and that is what alludes me. .. the desire of a mind to live and fly. Also, maybe cause I never really care much for the outer beauty and respect al those who in turn respect their thinking souls ...



We said- It's such a beautiful thought. How has being a published writer changed your life?

She said- Life hasn't changed trust me, except that now I have more work to follow up on reviews, plan events and yes- think of writing more. But, I have changed to be more of the thinking kinds - every troll has got me thinking as to why my stories have brought out such strong reactions, or why do people think I can't make that impact? It's got me thinking that it's my small step towards that big social consciousness and how to go about it.
But yes, it has made my father realize that his princess has grown up and also shown me not all acquaintances are friends and not all friends are true ones/well wishers....


We said- Would you say reviews on blogs help much in promoting the sale of a book?

She said- Not really, but yes it helps you attract eyeballs n atleast make people think about your book. Also, for me its really given me good feedbacks which has helped me grow as an author.


We said- Last question...what advice would you give to our readers and budding writers?

She said- Having a reading list or love for writing on something should not be influenced by what's "in" or what will make people love you. It is as personal as your bra size - push-ups don’t work for everyone and not all are comfortable with the concept of half-cups. But whatever suits you is what your skin is the most comfortable in, so stick to that. For, in order to fit in you might fake it, but that shall take away your beauty and your comfort and then you'll be lost in the crowd!


We said- Hear, hear! :D Well, Sagarika, it has been an absolute pleasure interacting with you. We wish you the very best of luck with your upcoming projects; and a very happy Women's Day!

P.S: [Freelancer obviously has a crush on her. I guess many other male readers do as well! :D]

A Calendar Too Crowded by Sagarika Chakraborty

I used to never read the introductions of any book unless I happen to read one by chance. And I must say, the introduction to this book sets the mood perfectly for the facts and semi-fictionalized tales  that will follow. The format chosen for the chapters is quie interesting as it highlights the days in each month marked for fairer sex and then portraying how the society is anything but fair to them.

Sagarika has a unique way of stating the obvious facts and events. And it is evident from the very first story of a born rebel and her questions throughout :

"I was lucky because I had met my husband and knew about his skills in bed much before I was married."

"Finding an Ideal Mother .." is a story which raises some valid questions on the set trends and thoughts of mothers across the nation. It made me realize how my mother would have felt not following such norms but working to make a better person out of me and my siblings.

"Witch with a broomstick " and "Barren yet ploughed" are the tales we hear often but do nothing further. Maybe we do  not know how and when such ideologies were formed , but do we even now think of the consequences on the victim ?

On similar lines is a letter from Paanchali - "An equal friendship". Love it when she says -

"The little that I have witnessed of thw ways of this world has convinced me that the notion of women's equality is the biggest misconception they live by here"

The words in italics are repeated over and over with detials of different scenarios. This repitition of key dialogues and sentences is done in each story and each of these sentences in themselves are the backbone and underlying message to each story.

It was heart  breaking to read of a raped girl and all the conversations that happened around her as she lies hurt and motionless on roadside. Have we really become so heartless and judgemental I am ashamed to ask .

My favorite story from the book is "the Homecoming" that talks of a lady coming face to face again with her boyfriend 28 years back and how the years with her husband finally give her an understanding of true love and belonging.

The book talks of females of different age , occupation and status in society , but the voices sound similar. The questions hurt and haunt, the compalints burn certain notions in your head, and yet each of the chapter brings you a better understanding of your self , your freedom and the price many others pay for it. The book also contains two poems , both of which I liked for the simplicity and style of presentation.

The book has been written with great understanding and sensitivity towards each character and situation.  A heart-touching book that I would cherish as much for the language as for the content. The books doesn't always fill you with sorrow at the turn of fate for these chanracters but more with hope and prayer that many more of us learn the importance of our position and stability in life. and may that be used to help others breath freely.

Ratings  : 4.5/5


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Arpita's Review for the same book.

A Calendar Too Crowded- Sagarika Chakraborty



(Review on request by Author)


ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Sagarika Chakraborty, born in Kolkata, studied law at National Law University, Jodhpur and is currently studying management at Indian School of Business, Hyderabad. Apart from delving into serious research work, she has also written light fiction and poetry for various online and print media. This is her first book.

ISBN: 978-93-81523-06-3

GENRE: Fiction

SYNOPSIS:

"This book is my view regarding each month where a large number of important days are dedicated to women, or life in general where women play a major role. The attempt is to analyse whether it is merely enough to rely on statistics and be complacent in the knowledge that the numbers indicate a better society in the making, or whether there is an urgent need to look beneath the covers and realize that despite all such dedicated days,there are three hundred odd days when there is nothing special that life has to offer. Where each day is still an unending drudgery and where womanhood is cursed and trampled upon."

EXCERPT:

At twenty-two, a guy dumped me on the grounds that his family would not accept me, since I was of unknown origin. I merely told him that I respected his decision before leaving the place; I was too shocked to say anything more. Later when I told didi about it and cried in her arms, she chided me for accepting such behaviour and letting others walk all over me. She made me understand that I couldn't let him leave before impressing upon him the fact that my parents and I had evolved from Homo sapiens, unlike him who had descended from the family of Canis lupus familiaris (dog)! Trust me, a one-sided conversation had never felt so good!

ARPITA SPEAKS:

There are very few authors who weave fiction with reality so dexterously that their book- despite being patently didactic- captures your attention, and keeps you hooked until the very end; and Sagarika Chakraborty is one of them. Here is a writer who boldly- and explicitly- challenges the preconceived notions of a biased, male-dominated society. And what’s more, she does not only question the integrity of men, but also that of the hard core feminists who believe they are establishing their independence and individuality by going against accepted social norms, sometimes at the cost of missing out on some precious experiences of life that are so vital to the emotional, psychological and social growth of a human being. After all, life is ultimately all about the attempt to reach equilibrium.

What is most impressive about the book is the form it’s been written in; it’s a fresh attempt to bring to light the struggles of numerous women throughout the world through anecdotes, letters and poetry. Certain words and phrases are emphasized which tend to haunt one's thoughts, and echo like a refrain in a poem. An overwhelming number of issues, ranging from the plight of a prostitute’s child to that of a woman living in a hospice, have been discussed so expertly; just as one finds the shock, horror or sorrow of the protagonist sinking in, a new chapter begins, with a new social evil that we’re made to acknowledge. Even more remarkable is the focus on little things in life we have complacently turned a blind eye to, as is the importance given to the emotional turmoil associated with a woman’s love life. What’s noteworthy is that someone has actually recognized the staggering impact that requited love- which we rarely associate with the ‘grave’ problems of our society- can have on an individual; indeed on an entire family.

Despite the serious subject matter, the book never blankets you in misery. Some of the stories by different girls and women going through varied experiences have happy endings that will make you smile; there are little nuggets of sarcasm and humor which enrich this anthology, and the first person narrative of some of the anecdotes gets one to truly connect with the character in question. I personally loved Panchaali’s letter to Lord Krishna- this came as a very pleasant surprise; and the references to Panchaali’s life reminded me of one of my favourite books- The Palace of Illusions by Divakaruni. A Calendar Too Crowded is a novel that will touch your heart; it will make you think, and change the way you look at this world.

Swarnali's review is a part of Blogadda's review program

Swarnali Says: As the author says, the book is a collection of stories and poems for each month of the year. These tales and poems are the author's take on those dates of our calendar that are marked to celebrate/remind us of a definite social reality. Be it January 24 marked as the National Day for the Girl Child (India) or be it March 8 celebrating International Women's Day, Sagarika Chakraborty, through her book compels us to ponder over the validity of such days. Does having one day as women’s day means the rest are for men?? I am not sure, yes that is what you are left with once you read the book, it does not provide you with concrete answers, it just makes you question the pre-conceived notions about the role of women and their status.

The best thing about the book is - no character is given a name as “they represent the millions of female voices that they seek to free from the clutches of injustice and oppression” and giving a name to them would make them one Sita or Gita and not the universal woman the author intended them to be. She could be you, your friend, your mom or that woman on the other side of the street. The issues picked up in the book are numerous and there are high chances that every woman who reads it identifies herself with one character or the other or maybe finds a strong similarity with some other woman she knows from very close. With issues like dowry system, the concept of the modern woman, the adoption scenario, prostitution, rape, nationality, puberty, motherhood, female feticide, women’s emancipation, domestic violence, the author hardly leaves any topic untouched, unquestioned and thought over.

I try to take a neutral stand while reviewing, this book turns to be strongly feminist at some points and men may not accept all that the author says. However,a sensitive and empathetic approach without prior biases while reading the book will help the reader understand that the author intends you to think and try to understand the plight of the women around you who are tortured on a daily basis either mentally, physically, emotionally or sexually, if not all of them. Every woman, no matter her nationality or her social status has at least once in her life gone through a situation where she was humiliated or taken advantage of, only because of her gender. Sagarika Chakraborty does not intend to be the champion to the women who are not allowed to fight for themselves, she attempts to bring to us the realities that happen every day, things that we have taken for granted. She puts a finger into our eyes and asks us if we should continue letting this happen or try to make a change.

The tales which were closest to my heart were "Naked" and "Selling a Body to Gain a Mind" . The first one is about the morning when a girl's body is found on the pavement , who died after being gang raped the previous night. The hypocrisy of the society we live in, is clearly reflected when people instead of trying to find the girl's identity and sympathizing for her and her family, blame her provocative dressing and not-so-sober habits of going to a bar to be the reason of her death. The second is a mother-daughter story where the mother, who herself being a prostitute tries everything she can to shield her daughter from getting into the snare of prostitution. The question "why a prostitute is ashamed of what she does all her life,but the society is never ashamed of what it has done to her?" is very thought provocative. This story reminds me very much of an Academy award winning documentary I saw sometime back -" Born into Brothels: Calcutta's Red Light Kids".

Not all stories are sad,some do have a happy ending like "Homecoming" and "Sisters by Choice and not by Chance", indicating that a happy end is possible.This is not a book that you can read over a cup of tea and forget after you get up from the chair, the book and the characters remain in your mind for a very long time. I loved the author's style and the double narrative technique she adopted,some tales in the first person for a direct view and some in the third person for a more impersonal perspective. The book makes a good read and a very good one for a debut.


RATING: 4 on 5 (Both Swarnali and Arpita gave the book a 4/5)

PRICE: Rs.295/- (INR)

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